PRAYER, FAITH
SUSTAIN HIM
By Roxanne Stapleton
Express
January 7, 2000
Page 43
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Dr.
Wahid Ali, a devout Muslim, was struck with a paralyzing disease four years
ago. He drew upon his beliefs and his
family to survive. Faith and prayer
became his tools for existence. He
was the founder of the Inter Religious Organization of T&T, the idea
planted in his mind in 1951 by his mentor Maulana Abdul Aleem Siddiqui, Al
Quaderi. In celebration of
Eid-ul-Fitr, his family shares this story as one of inspiration for people of
all faiths. |
Dr.
Wahid Ali, President of the Senate for 16 years, became so weak
he could not swallow liquids. He talked
on the telephone by placing the receiver on a pillow as he lay in bed. He couldn't move his legs and feet more than
a few inches.
In
August 1996, his sickness was diagnosed as Guillain-Barré Syndrome. It is a disorder of progressive muscle
weakness or paralysis; it is related to inflammation of multiple peripheral
nerves.
There
is no known prevention of this disease.
Symptoms
usually develop rapidly over a period of two or three weeks before leveling
of. The recovery phase may last four to
six months, or longer. Symptoms that
require emergency intervention include difficulty in breathing, an inability to
swallow and fainting.
As
he wrote in his book, Back From the Brink, being a medical doctor increased the
fears.
"Words
cannot describe the helplessness of the patient who feels his head bursting
with pain, he writes.
Ali
slept only two, three hours a day, and the headaches were a nightmare.
His
health has never recovered, through in his heart, he never gives up.
"Now
his meals are carried to him, since it's difficult to go down the stairs,"
his daughter Hameeda said last week.
If
he has to visit his doctor, he is assisted to the car. His family is hoping for the best.
With
no desire to eat or drink, his muscles have wasted away. During the first two months of his illness,
he lost 42 pounds and the weight loss has continued. Instead of getting relief through medicine, he had an allergic
reaction.
Being
a medical doctor, Ali understood what being struck with this disease meant.
The
knowledge made him pensive.
He
thought of his two single daughters, and of his unmarried son whom he felt
would cope better in life than the girls.
And he thought of all those who influenced him in one way or the other,
like his wife Mariam who passed away in 1972, after 21 years of marriage. When Mariam died, he became a single parent
with eight children, aged 20 to one and a half years.
"Mariam's
passing away had placed an unthinkable strain on me," he said. "I felt like a fish out of water."
It's
difficult for Ali to keep long conversations.
At
the height of his disease, constantly in pain, the doctor was told that a
patient of his was in hospital. Ali
went to visit him.
His
patient exclaimed, "Dr. Ali, they told me how sick you were, and I've been
praying for you."
Ali
had always been kind to his patients.
At
a time when the medical fraternity has highlighted its grouses and patients in
hospitals regularly complain, the doctor has been no exception. In his book, Ali was scathing in his
comments on the way some nurses treated him.
But those who cared made the ordeal a little more tolerable.
Guillain-Barré Syndrome has not been the
only near-death scare for the Ali's.
I
1975, with seven of his children, his brother Abass, his brother's wife
Zaitoon, their younger daughter Feroza and two teenage sons of doctors David
and Elizabeth Quamina, they chartered a boat and set out on a fishing trip.
About
two miles out at sea, the boat developed engine trouble and when the captain
attempted to restart the engine, a fire broke out. The fire engulfed the boat, which was fuelled by gasoline, and
the gas tank exploded.
Flames
roared into the sky.
In
the confusion, only four life jackets were found. The captain's assistant deserted them and the captain said he was
swimming to shore for help. They
paddled in the choppy sea for more than 30 minutes.
Hameeda,
Ali's daughter, held on to the back of her father's T-shirt. Ali held his niece Feroza in his left arm
while he struggled to keep his sister-in-law's face out of the water.
They
prayed constantly.
The
doctor heard his son Hakeem say, "Pedal, as you pedal a cycle."
About
50 feet away he saw his brother Abass holding his four-year-old daughter Azeeza
in his arm. Abass's head dipped in and
out of the water.
Finally,
a fishing boat arrived and one of the fishermen lifted Azeeza into the
boat. But Ali's brother and his wife
Zaitoon drowned.
The
other near-death scare came in 1991 when Ali underwent open-heart surgery.
"I
saw myself floating into a serene a light blue tunnel. In the distance I could see my mother,
pleasant and smiling. She did not say
or do anything. Her appearance was
comforting."
But
Ali made it back from the brink.